April 2010 Archives

More from Annette's blog, Cultivating Beauty.

I was picked up by Rosana Schaack who works with Samaritan's Purse and also runs the THINK (Touching Humanity In Need Of Kindness) Homes. Rosana grew up next door to us, adopted by the Hungerpillers.

This is a Day Retreat for Women from three facilities. There are 25 girls and 10 babies in the Rehab home where they are in basic school and learning trades. There are 20 girls in another Safe Home and 20 in a Juvenile Transit home. These young girls spend 6 to 8 months learning a trade, such as hair dressing, cooking, pastry making, cosmetology and sewing/tailoring. Most are former child soldiers, or prostitutes from off the streets of Monrovia. Many of them have children. They live in the home and learn about Jesus as well. They learn to worship and sing! One of the songs they sang said: "God says I am a winner, I will never be a loser!" Some of them are as young as 14 years. I took baby cloths for their children. It was like Christmas.

We also took reading glasses to give to older people who were having trouble reading. The joy couldn't believed!

I spent a lot of time seeing some of their sewing projects and accomplishments. One of the girls gave me a little dress she had made, for me to take home to one of my grandchildren.

Fifty-five attended the day conference where I spoke twice in the morning, Dancing with our Scars and Beyond Forgiveness. We played with the parachute before lunch. All their babies played under the parachute while the Moms enjoyed trying to keep the ball in the chute! It was as if they were allowed to be children and play themselves.

In the afternoon, I spoke about the 'Woman who Reached' from Luke 7. The woman who WEPT, knowing her need of a Savior, WET His feet with her tears, in transparency, WIPED His feet with her hair, and WORSHIPED with oil and WENT in PEACE! I then asked them to pair off with a partner. I put sweet smelling hand lotion in each of their hands and asked them to hold each others hands, and story tell of how they could pray for each other. Then take turns praying for each other. Christine also presented the Seven Steps to Freedom.

I met a 16 year old, Annest who has year old girl triplets. They are helping her get on her feet and supporting her children right now. Please pray for them.

At 4:00 p.m. more youth from the community joined us for Rally #3. The "Sin Box" drama was something that was very clear for youth to understand. Is is a simple visual of how others done see our sin, and a try to help us out. We can try a lot of things to become free from sin, but Jesus is the only way to become free!

About 100 attended with 15 making a decision of some kind.

I spent a few hours with Jefferson and Helena Zeon from the Susie Guenter Orphanage.

While they were there, Samuel Minikollie from Beloved Baptist Church came to visit. He went to Carver Mission. As we were visiting, he was telling us the story of how his church has been given fair warning that there will be a Devil Festival for the next three months in his town. He was very passionate as he told the story. Part of the celebration will be the change of a demarcation line for the town. They will be dancing all around the town and the devil will come there. This is a Bassa and Kpelle area. As he was telling the story, he mentioned the name DURZON! I couldn't believe what I just heard!

This was the town I used to teach Sunday School every Sunday afternoon when I was a teenager. I went with Orbra Bliss, who led the church service. I knew the big cotton wood tree where the girls society was located. I would walk around the town gathering children for the Sunday School. Here is a picture of me with some of the children! I was about 18 years old here.

Samuel started the church in Durzon, that has grown. They have been meeting in a school building in the middle of the town. But now they are told their church cannot meet for the next three months because of the Devil Festival.

He also shared about a small river that runs near the town. The townspeople believe that catfish that live there are their ancestors and children. They worship them, and won't eat them. They believe if they do, they will die. But the Christians are trying to tell them that God has made all creation of it's own kind, and fish are safe to eat, they are not their ancestors. The Christians have shown them that they are still alive, after eating the fish.

Samuel also told of Annie, a Zoe Woman (who is the leader of the girls' devil bush) who doesn't want her granddaughter to go into the girls society for initiation. She moved her granddaughter, Kathryn Smith (13 year old) so she could go to church. But the Zoe Woman has still been blinded and cannot see the truth. The young children are taken into the bush from as young as 4 years of age for a few years. They are circumcised, given tribal markings on their back and sometimes beauty marks on the face. If there is infection from using unsterilized instruments and the child dies, they say the "devil has swallowed them up." The parents are instructed not to mourn or cry. There are initiations with sacrifices and formal secret initiation rights. They are taught ancestral worship, and indoctrinated into having extra powers. They are also taught how to cook, and are prepared for marriage at a young age.

Some of these girls are saved and baptized after they come out of the Devil Bush, but there is a lot of satanic bondage in many of their lives. Please pray for Annie and Kathryn that they will personally meet Jesus, the life giving source of life.

They also talked of their concern with the Boyo in Maryland that happened last week. This is where a "heart man" kills someone and eats their heart and drinks their blood wanting to have more power during the election time that is coming next year. Allen Yancy Jr and Dan Marias both around the age of 60, have been arrested along with 10 others. This is a way leaders in a community try to intimidate the people to vote for them. When they commit Boyo, they feel they are untouchable. What a liar and fool the devil is.

I asked about the village of King Gray that was near the beach where we grew up. That Devil Bush is gone!!! There is now a Catholic school and church there now.

They also told me about General Butt Naked who was Krahn, one of the most feared men in Liberia. By the way, we met Joshua Milton Blahyi on our way back through Accra, Ghana. He also told us his story. He was known as the Hitler of Liberia. He became a Satanic Priest at the age of 7 years, and joined the boy soldiers at the age of 11 years. Satan told him to fight naked, as it would give him greater power. He had super satanic powers. All those who fought with him also fought naked. They were feared greatly.

He had a Saul - Damascus Road conversion. He had just killed a three month baby, ate its heart and was getting ready to attack a government force when he and his army were crossing over the new Montserado bridge from Bushrod Island. He was stopped by a voice behind him. He said it was Jesus speaking in Krahn who told him that he needed to serve another General! He tried to use his guns and they blew up and wouldn't fire. He felt shame for the first time in his life and clothed himself. He accepted Jesus as Savior. The first woman who was saved after he became a believer was a mad naked woman! Talk about transformation.

He escaped for his life many times. He went to neighboring countries and worked in refugee camps as an evangelist. Many knew him in his former life and believed because of his new life. He felt the needed to come back to Liberia and stand trial for the atrocities and war crimes he had committed. He confessed everything he had done. He had killed thousands. At first they didn't believe all he said he had done. Amnesty International has pardoned him because he is helping so many who he had wounded. He is now an evangelist, living a testimony of a totally transformed life.

Pray for him, his wife and now 4 children for safety and the strength to live a life that continues to transform Liberia and surrounding countries.

In the evening, we went to dinner at Christine's with her staff. Fellowship was so rich!

On our way back to the guest house, we stopped by the Radio Station. Dan led one of the night staff to Jesus and gave him his own Bible. It's eternity appointment-moments like this that make a day overflow with JOY!!!

Dan and I went to ELWA Staff Devotions at 7:30 am. I was the only woman, but it was wonderful seeing men who were serving Jesus, singing and committing their new day to Him for His service.

I stayed at the guest house and visited with Ben Colby (SIM Liberia) for about two hours. Then I visited with James Kesselly (ELWA Ministries) also. They both shared how the structure of the ministry in Liberia has changed since the war. They shared a lot of personal as well as ministry prayer requests. There are wonderful things happening, but there is real need for the Lord to come along side and give specific guidance in certain matters. This can happen. I know how the devil would love to get in the middle of what God is doing, causing confusion and frustration. I have seen how prayer can tie the hands and gag the mouth of the devil. God can override again!!!

Jefferson and Helena Zeon from Jabzjet (which means TRUTH in Bassa) Orphanage came by to visit. This orphanage is also know as Susie Guenter's Orphanage with a total of 62 children in their care. They have three locations: 1. Bassa Foster Home with 18 children with a school from K-6th grade. 2. Another Foster Home with 8 children and 3. the Orphanage with 36 children with a school from K-9th grade. There are children from the community that attend, making a total of 370 students. The school was started in 1987, just before the war, Jefferson was an orphan himself. He was raised by the Gunthers, and given the opportunity to go to school. Now he wants to give back to Liberia by providing opportunity for other orphans. They have two special needs children, Hawa (3 years old) with Cerebral Palsy and Dominique (2 years old) who is also mentally handicap. We visited them later.

In the evening we went to a Reception given by YFC Liberia staff and Board. We were able to meet with the Board members as well. It was wonderful hearing how God is renewing YFC International in Liberia. Rev Michael Holder who is Chaplin of the Liberian Senate was on the Teen Time Quiz as well as Vice President Boakai. They still study their Bibles from what they learned many years ago. He said he came as a 'bush-boy' to the Senate, and thanks God for the influence he has in the government right now. He said: "We must pray that God would give us peace in Liberia, but now we are turning Liberia back to unbelievers." He explained that his desire is to see more true believers in the government, and not hand it back to unbelievers. He is trying to build a newwork between churches and the Government. Pray for Augustine Fredericks who is now the Liberian Director of YFC. We thank the Lord that they have worked everyday with us on the Rallies. God is so good. Their follow up teams will also work with the churches where we had the Rallies for follow up.

Thank you so much, Annette, for sharing your blog, Cultivating Beauty, with us!

Every morning and evening I met up with new and old friends who heard that a "de la Haye" was back in Liberia. Many came for miles to visit and pray together. Trokon Garway met my sister Joy on Facebook. He told me his story of how God protected him during the war. He would hide in the bush for days. When he heard anything, he would cover himself with tall grass and lay as still as he could and just pray.

Dan, Tom and I drove around Monrovia as Dave and Herbie when for meetings at the Ministry of Health. We walked down Carry Street looking for a Liberian shirt for Dan and Tom. While they were getting their shirts, I was making friends with the tailors in the shop. All of a sudden there was a loud commotion. An ex-combatant with only one arm got in a fight with the owner of the store who was trying to move him away from Dan and Tom. The ex-combatant was trying to get a 'dash' from them. He became so angry, that he took his shirt off, pulled a razor blade and started slashing it around. Dan and Tom quickly moved away, as they were at the front of the store, but I was inside and couldn't get out. The angry man rushed into the store, pushing a man in front of me who fell back on me. I fell back onto a sewing machine, my shoes flew off. I wasn't hurt, but realized all the tailors encircled me protecting me from this very angry fellow. They moved me out of the store and down the street. We left thanking God for His protection, and two new shirts! There is a good end to this story. Two days later, Dan and Tom went back to get another shirt they ordered, and the same ex-combatant was there and he apologized.

We went to the top of the hill where the Ducor Hotel still stands as a shell of it's former self. It is a place where criminals and ex-combatants lived after the war. It overlooks the sea and the city of Monrovia. It is surrounded by many cannons from the slaving days. The statue of the first President of Liberia, Joseph J. Roberts and the bronze sculptured wall of history still stands as a tribute to the beginning of Liberia's Independence in July 1847.

Canons lay silent under the underbrush as a reminder that freedom doesn't come with guns and war, or tribal differences, but under the forgiveness and restoration of our homeland and people through Jesus Christ.

We also saw the Mahogany wall that still stands where the restaurant used to be, that overlooks the pool. This was where I had my High School graduation dinner with my family after graduating from College of West Africa. Old memories, sure are different now. We saw the new plans for the reconstruction of the hotel. Sure hope they keep this wall!

Just had to get Dan taking a dive in the pool ... just for old times sake! We were able to talk to the next generation of kids off from school and invite them to the youth rallies. They are the future of Liberia!

Driving through Monrovia with sights, sounds and smells ... was so precious. The streets are so full of more cars and people now. So many have moved into the city hoping for new opportunities. Old churches and buildings have signs of war, but still stand!

Seeing the old Mansion and Centennial Pavilion where I used to go visit CooCoo Tubman as a teenager, brought fond memories. I remember when Queen Elizabeth made a visit to Liberia, I went with my parents to a garden party here.This is where Steve and Dan Snyder's parents were married!

YFC was started almost 50 years ago in Liberia. This is where the Saturday night rallies used to be held. Many still talk about the "Teen Time Quiz" and how it influenced their way of studying the Bible, even to this day.

Government buildings are being repaired and put back into use again. There is still much to be done in Monrovia and all around the country. But a lot has happened since so much destruction. It is taking time, but it is happening.

Christine and I visited the Vice President in his office at the Capital Building. Please pray for those in government places that they will be able to hold true to the values and calling to rebuild Liberian into a truly Christ-following-Nation. Hearts are to be changed before a nation is changed.

The Lutheran Church is still a lighthouse where Christ is known, even after the massacre of over 600 church goes during the war. Many churches stand as places of worship to the true and living God who calls people to forgiveness and restoration of people and land. Our hearts were blessed by many stories of this very thing.

As we drove through the streets on our way back to ELWA, we rejoiced to see how hundreds of school children and young adults there were. Please pray as there are so many supplies, text books, teaching helps, libraries, desks, and teacher training needed in the country. Many of the schools we visited just have a roof for cover, sand on the floor, no chalkboards, and very few books.

When we got back to ELWA, Ben Manuel came to visit. (Ben was the mechanic in the garage in the old days of ELWA.)

YFC came to set up for Rally #2 at International Church of Monrovia (ICM) at ELWA Campus. Pastor Moses Gwoley is the Pastor. There were about 75 HS and College age kids. 2 made a commitment to Jesus. Pastor Gwoley says that the possibility of working with YFC in the future was an answer to prayer.

I met King who was one of Ray's (my brother) students when he and Marcia lived and taught at ELWA Academy. How precious to see friends like this. Ray meant a lot to King.

We got back to the guest house about 10:00 pm after a very full day for our country chop dinner! What a happy day to celebrate what Jesus has done!

After the morning service, we had Youth Rally #1. There was a total of about 200 people with 75 decisions. YFC lead the worship and praise, with lots of dancing. I shared my testimony and we watched part of Sammy Morris' story, Angel in Ebony (You can view this on-line). The team did the 'Sin Box' drama, about how we can get stuck in our sin, and Jesus is the only one who can free us from our sin.

On our way home, we visited REAP's William R. Tolbert's Youth Enlightenment and Empowerment Center (WRT-YEE-Center). Christine's father called the children of Liberia "his precious Jewels". Her Dad had a dream to provide hope and opportunity to the disadvantaged youth of the country. The Center is located on 50 acres of land approximately 36 miles from Monrovia. There are 5 buildings that are still structurally sound after the destruction during the war. There is a Multi-Purpose Building, Administration Building with Library and Learning Center, Girls Dorm, Boys Dorm, and Director's Residence.

The target groups are youth, young adults, street children, ex-combatants, orphans, orphan caregivers, HIV/AIDS victims, prostitutes, drug addicts, teachers, and women.

The Poverty Reduction Strategy (PRS) emerged from a series of country consultations, interviews and town meetings conducted by the current President of Liberia, Her Excellency Ellen Johnson Sileaf. WRT-YEE Center falls within this vision. After decades of economic mismanagement and over 14 years of brutal civil war, the country has been at peace since 2003 and is on the road to recovery. Roads and buildings are being rebuilt and repaired. Health clinics, schools, agriculture production are increasing.

Liberia's war killed over 270,000 people leaving thousands as refugees, internally displaced, orphaned and shattered. Over 65% live below the poverty level. 70% of school buildings are partially or wholly destroyed. Many teachers have little or no training. Over 50% of Liberian youth and children are estimated to be out of school. A whole generation has spent more time at war than in a classroom. Gender based violence and HIV/AIDS are major issues. two out of five children are growth-stunted and almost 20% underweight. The adult literacy rates display a gap: outside Monrovia, only one-third of women are literate, compared to about 60% of men. There is a 65% illiteracy rate in the country.

The Program Plans will cover a Counseling and Guidance Center for testing aptitude, summer camps, training in starting a small business, leadership and reconciliation, health and sex education, spiritual guidance, recreation and creative play, outreach to orphans, women empowerment, brick making, carpentry, electricians, computer skills, book keeping, sports, secretarial skills, mechanics, sewing, and cooking and preserving, horticulture and agriculture.

There is a great need for assistance in helping Christine see this venture become a greater reality! Please pray for wisdom for her team as they strive to better Liberia in Godly, practical ways.

The Women Aglow Breakfast's 3rd year anniversary breakfast was held at the PA's Rib House, Lapazee, Sinkor. Christine and I shared the morning with Vice President Boakai's wife, Kartumu. She is a woman who lives to pray. CooCoo also came. We celebrated the goodness of God in worship and dance!

I met a lot of influential Liberian women, who had heartbreaking stories of how they survived the war, and how they now desired to rebuild Liberia for Jesus' sake. I heard stories of how many ran through the bush for their lives with their families. One told me of how she spoke with ones who killed her father, sharing a Bible with him. The terror is still much alive in some of their hearts. It was an honor to cry and pay with many of them.

I shared my story Dancing with my Scars, and how to move beyond forgiveness. This is something that is possible as we work through our sorrow and trauma.

After a wonderful morning of celebration, Christine dropped me off at ELWA guest house. Dan was already in the middle of a Press Conference with representatives from major new papers and radio stations. It was held in our old living room.

We were able to share openly about our faith and why we had returned to Liberia. YFC representatives were also interview, as their music team was a vital part in leading the worship during the Youth Rallies. (Note: Read the article printed by the Liberian Observer) I was able to meet other team members who arrived with Dan.

As I moved from Christine's guest house (REAP) to ELWA guest house for the rest of our stay in Liberia, my heart was warmed knowing this was the place on earth where most of my 'growing up in Jesus' took place.

My heart was overwhelmed that my Heavenly Father allowed me to return HOME TO MY HEART! This is a place where much physical change has happened, but where God's goodness, faithfulness and love remains the same.

We met Nene Wankollie and her daughter Janga who oversee the guest house. Her husband Joe Wankollie is the Acting SIM Liberia Associate Director working with Ben Colby the Director. I also met with James Kesselley.

I met JanJay and Dewbbah Greene who story told of God's protection during the war. Many of their friends were forced into the war, but God protected them as they hid. They are going to Carver Mission now. These are some of the young Liberians who we need to pray will make wise choices and follow after the heart of God.

In the evening we went to Christine's home for good Liberian Chop with REAP, YFC staff and some of the Pastors of churches where the Rallies will be held. We were able to fellowship, pray and finalize some of the details for the next two weeks.

Annette de la Haye Cooper details her return to Liberia and her ministry trip last month in her blog, Cultivating Beauty. She has graciously allowed us to post her journal here as well. Enjoy her stories of God at work in Liberia!

Thursday, March 18th

Christine and I got up early this morning to get to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs for the Power Breakfast with Female Lawyers, female members of the Legislator, Judges, Cabinet members and wives of Cabinet members and legislators.

God's grace is in the event from the very beginning. The story started late last night. We went to set up the hall, and found another group setting up.

Our booking was confirmed a month ago. We found out that the President had scheduled a meeting in the room we were going to use, so we needed to find another location. We waited a few hours to find out that we could use the Ministries Cafeteria, but was locked until the morning. So we waited for someone to locate the key. We had to set up the night before, because our event started at 8:30 am. One of the young University students that worked with Cllr. Yvette Chesson Wueh and the Angie Brooks International Center was so helpful in dealing with the situation. By the time things were settled, we had been about 5 hours working through these final details. We prayed and saw God overrule in a situation that seemed almost impossible.

The change of room location to the informality of having the cafeteria lent itself to a more intimate gathering. God was in that! Dancing with our Scars was the theme. As I spoke, many had tears in their eyes. They didn't try o hide them, they let them flow. It was a safe place where people of high stature could look into their own hearts and let God sooth them. Many came for prayer. One woman came up with tears streaming down her cheeks and quietly said, "I haven't cried in years, God spoke to me today."

There are women of great influence in Liberia. I pray that they will choose to follow after the true and loving God who is not here to destroy and break down, bur build up!

Friday, March 19th

Christine and I left for a Women Aglow yearly leaders conference at Wulki Farms. From 9:00 am to 3:00 pm, they worshiped and prayed, then did their business! There were young to older women present. One segment of prayer was taking all the devils work to the high court of God our High Judge and King. Isa 41:21: "Produce your case, says the Lord, bring forth your strong (reason), says the King of Jacob." God is challenging us to produce petitions. He is expecting us to take a divine legal action against our enemies by bringing cases to HIS COURT.

We must make our points and support them with strong arguments. That is what he Lord is telling us to do. When we take our case to Heaven's courts, we will never be denied justice, in Jesus' name.

Psalm 9:4, 3-5, 7-9,11 "My enemies turn back, they stumble and perish before you. For you have upheld my right hand and my cause; you have sat on Your throne, judging righteously. You have rebuked the nations and destroyed the wicked; you have blotted out their names for eve and ever. The Lord reigns forever; He has established His throne for judgment. He will judge the world in righteousness; He will govern His people with justice. The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. Proclaim among the nations what He has done."

To hear the earnest prayers of these strong women, encouraged me. Here are some of their prayers: "Liberia has been effected from our ancestors, we ask God to cut the root of that false foundation, separate us from known sin like many wives, a demonic alters of juju or fetish that might be set up from our background." "We pray that every Liberian child will be our child." "We drag the devil to the court house of heaven, may the enemy become enemy to itself, with sudden confusion engulfing them. May the enemy become landlords of the valley of defeat." They prayed for every segment of society in this way. Being in the presence of women with strong voices and heart is something I haven't been a part of for some time.

Tuesday, March 16th

Christine and I went to the UN Mission In Liberia (UNMIL) Radio Station run by the UN. We had a 45 minute interview about what our team is doing in Liberia. We both were able to share our testimony and speak very openly about Jesus. We both talked about dancing with our scars and how God has personally moved us to a healthy lifestyle.

At 12:30 we went to the College of West Africa where I graduated from High School. As I walked up the front steps and into the hallway to the assembly room, I felt like I went back in time. I spoke in the assemble to the 9th - 12th graders. I shared about the one thing I didn't like about CWA, and that was having to wear 'white socks'. They all laughed so hard. I used that as a jumping off point to help them realize there are a lot of things we don't like in life, but most of them are for a season. I encouraged them to do their best in school as it is a precious opportunity to build the future of Liberia. I shared Psalm 139:11-17 where they are one of a kind and very valued by God.

An hour after we left the school, I saw one of the boys from the school on the street selling electrical plugs, to earn extra money. These are the ones who need to find Jesus. They might be snatched away by others who might lead them down a dark path. These are the youth we want to see come to Christ.

Christine and I went out for Fufu and Collard Greens soup. OHHHHH, what a wonderful meal.

We stopped by the Capital to see Vice President Boakai again.

We found out the OM LOGOS HOPE Ship line-up man was in town, so we met with him. The ship will be coming to Liberia in Aug 6-27, 2010 do do medical, dental and educational work in Liberia. There are 400 on board. It would be great to be a part of that team, who knows!!!

Wednesday, March 17th

This morning I spent with Sartee and his wife and new baby. What a precious treasure from God. Their story telling of God's goodness to them during the war, and how He has given them a second change after the war. They are so thankful for this new little life. We were able to give them some baby cloths and toys. It was fun to use my nursing skills in coaching her with breastfeeding. I love quiet moments like this with people. This is where most of us live LIFE!

I worked in the office with Emmanuel and Esther helping with assembly of programs and handouts for tomorrows meeting, and the upcoming ones.

Sunday, March 14th at First United Methodist Church

What a wonderful Sunday at home, attending the First United Methodist Church built in 1812 with CooCoo Tubman Tucker and her grandchildren. The church is located almost across the road from the Old Mansion where my Mom and I would visit Mrs. Tubman and CooCoo when I was a teenager. Her father was President William V.S. Tubman, who died in 1971. My parents were knighted by President Tubman for services in Liberia. The music, well ... you had to be there!

I spent most of the day with their family. It was precious seeing Old Ma Tubman. She is 96. She was a good friend of my Mom, and kept asking me where my Ma was. I assured her that both Ma and Pa are with Jesus now. She wanted me to go get them, so she could visit with them. We had a precious visit.

Late afternoon Christine and I went to visit Vice President and Mrs. Joseph Boakai at their home. He had a copy of The College of West Africa 1966 year book, my graduating class. We were in school together. We looked at the pictures, laughed and story told of good memories. "Sugar Star" was my school name. It was great getting to know his sweet wife, Kartumu. At the end of our visit, we stood in a circle and prayed.

Rainy season is almost here. The black clouds crept across the sky closing in to beat us with a torrent of rain. Falling asleep with a choir of tropical birds, dogs barking and bull frogs bringing up the bass was music to my ear.

Monday, March 15th

In the morning it was great spending time and getting to know Christine's staff at REAP. We finalized a few things and prayed together.

In the afternoon Christine and I went to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs to meet with Cllr. Yvette Wureh who is involved with the Thursday Power Breakfast. We confirmed some of the details. The Breakfast is sponsored by three organizations: 1. Restoration of Educational Advancement Programs (REAP) - a humanitarian, educational and non-profit organization registered in the USA and Liberia. REAP initiates and implements enrichment progams designed to foster character building, democracy, good governance and leadership development. 2. Angie Brooks International Center (ABIC) - an academic/activist center that support the strategic emergence of Woman's leadership worldwide, in three areas: A. Research, analysis and project evaluation B. Training, including the nurturing of new institutions and C. Advocacy, including framing the discourse and building strategic partnership.and Association of Female Lawyers of Liberia (AFELL) - is a not-profit, non-governmental organization duly incorporated under the laws of Liberia on February 24, 1994 with accreditation from the Ministry of Planning It is a direct response to ensure advocacy for the rights of and promotion for the advancement of women, children and indigent persons. AFELL's mission is to advocate for the promotion, protection and advancement of the rights of women and children. One of its visions is to ensure that by the year 2020 majority of Liberian Women and children will have equal access and opportunities to both formal and informal education throughout Liberia.

We then delivered a lot of invitations for the Thursday event to offices in Government buildings.

I left by taxi at 5:45 am for he under 2 hour flight to Monrovia. As the pilot said "welcome to Monrovia, Liberia, it is 94 degrees", my heart pounded out of my chest. I wanted to say, would you kindly repeat that! I felt like a child waiting for Christmas morning. I looked forward to discovering the gifts of God's love, mercy and grace in the lives of the people I would meet for the first time and those I would reunite with, after so many years.

Christine Tolbert Norman of Restoration of Educational Advancement Programs (REAP), met me with open arms. She and her staff have made all the arrangements for our three week stay. They have been working for months. We so appreciate their efficient work. On our way to her home, we stopped by ELWA. Things have really changed, BUT as the sea claps with praise to our creator God, and the sand and broad African horizon remains the same, it is only a reminder of God's faithfulness to all of us. He never changes!

I stepped up to the front door of our home which is now the guest house, facing the beach. I called out "buck buck" which is the Liberian way of saying "knock knock". I was warmly greeted by a Liberian sister who led me through our home.

Memories flooded my mind as I looked over the living room, down the hall to Joy and my bedrooms. Then to the back of the house that has been changed into many more guest rooms. This is the place where most of the learning about who Jesus is in my life - took place. I just paused and took it all in. The home extends past "Shore Haven" which was a little guest house attached to our home. Dad and Mom's bedroom and Mom's secret garden are now made into other guest rooms.

As I drove by where the main study building used to be from the 1950s, my heart wept as I saw the pile of rubble behind the flag pole.

But then seeing the start of something new just down the road, brought peace to my heart.

Kedrick White is in the studio with the music library behind him. I brought more CD's of music to be added to ELWA Library as well as Mrs G's Bible stories for children, that started on April 3rd. Here programs used to be played in the 70s, but were destroyed in the war. Seeing new development at the school with 500 students and the hospital was amazing.

We had wonderful Liberian meal of cassava and palm butter fish pepper sauce at the Norman's. I stayed the first week in Liberia at their guest house.

Urgent prayer request: ELWA is facing significant financial challenges, as well as other events that Satan is using to discourage the staff and hamper the work of Christ in Liberia through the ministry of ELWA. If you have been thinking about supporting the ministry financially, and in prayer, NOW is the time!

Annette de la Haye Cooper kept a journal during her three week trip with Dan Snyder to Liberia. She has put her stories and amazing pictures on her blog, Cultivating Beauty, and has graciously allowed us to post them here as well. I encourage you impatient ones to read all of her entries at her blog.

Report of my return to Liberia, West Africa - March 2010

"Lord I have heard the news about You, I am amazed at what You have done. Lord, do great things once again in our time, make those things happen again in our own days. " Habakkuk 3:2

This tree is a living picture of what I experienced on my return to Liberia after the devastation of civil war. Most, if not all the coconut trees that grew along the beach where I grew up were cut down for food by refugees. This tree was cut down for dead, but there was a remnant root still connected to nourishment. It continued to grow! Life from death! Yes, with Almighty God, that becomes reality. I saw it over and over again in the eyes and lives of my dear Liberian brothers and sisters, who painstakingly shared near death stories of how God preserved them.

I want to share the three weeks of my journal with you. It may take time, as I want to add pictures, that speak more than words. So keep coming back to my blog for updates ... I invite you to walk with me through a journey full of joy and thanksgiving for God's greatness.

Thursday, March 11 - Friday March12th

I flew from Detroit via JFK to Accra, Ghana. Early Friday morning as we circled Accra's airport, tears of joy squeezed out of my eyes as I saw the ocean waves skirting the coastline of Africa, my home continent. Walking down the gangway, I was enveloped by a welcome hug of humid tropical air. In the car, I was serenaded by tropical birds mixed with honking of car horns. The red laterite soil and termite hills reaching to the sky brought back happy memories of when I used to poke holes in the bottom of the hill with a along stick to feed my pet anteater. I spent the day and overnight at the SIM guest house praying and reading my Bible. Fresh pineapple and bananas were on the menu for the day'!

We will continue to post her journal each day.

Dan Snyder has written up a summary of his trip. It is so exciting to see how God is working in Liberia! One thing he doesn't mention is the press conference they had the first day. A wonderful article about the team's trip and ministry is available at the Daily Observer.

Dear Friends and Family:

Thank you for your prayers and financial support that made our mission's trip possible. The 'main purpose of this trip was to share the love of God with the young people in Liberia and to let them know that only He can give them the healing and forgiveness they need and are looking for.

This message was shared through eight youth rallies, at several schools and orphanages, a meeting with ex-combatants and a number of meetings with key women's groups. There were many who gave their lives to the Lord at these events and through our partnerships with local churches and Youth For Christ - Liberia, these new Christians are now being discipled. We praise the Lord for these partnerships and could not have made this trip without them.

To highlight a few of these events, our first rally saw over 70 receive Christ. At the last rally, in the same part of town where several days earlier we had met (with security accompanying us) with a group of ex-combatants, 10+ of these guys came and slipped in and sat in the back. At the end they came forward to make public their professions of faith. The YFC (Youth For Christ) staff went back after our meeting to follow up and lead these guys to the Lord. They now serve Christ as the commander of their lives instead of some rebel soldier commander. At another rally the church's pastor thanked me for coming and said I was an answer to years of prayer, prayer to reach the young people in his church. I told him that I was not the answer but rather the YFC team was. They are now planning to hold monthly youth rallies at that church as well as at several other churches where we held rallies.

Additionally, at several of Annette's women's meetings (with the women legislators and judges) a number of these ladies who had been suffering from being abused and wronged during the war years received healing through Christ and were set free by being able to now forgive those who offended them. There were many tears of joy shed at all these events as our Heavenly Father changed so many lives.

Additionally, part of our team had a series of meetings with government officials in regards to adoptions in Liberia. This process is only permitted now for "special needs children" due to rogue agencies illegally trafficking children. Representatives from Lifeline Children's Services will now be able to work with the government in developing the new process and guidelines for adoptions. Also, Lifeline was referred to three special needs children who need homes now. And Lifeline hopes to partner with REAP to train non-adoptable orphans.

There were many key relationships born on this trip with the local churches and YFC and with Lifeline, the government and several other organizations that will allow God's work to continue and grow, even though we are not there. So this trip was not just evangelistic in nature, but served as a trip to empower and equip local Liberians to continue His work in our absence. And this is what I believe missions, in our day and age, is all about.

We also delivered children's clothes and eye glasses to those who are in positions to utilize them to further the Kingdom of God in Liberia. And the Lord led me to some key contacts to once again open up the skies of Liberia to missionary aviation. This will take several years, a lot of work and a lot of prayers.

In the midst of all the successes for our Lord, Satan was fighting hard. Three of the YFC team lost loved ones, I was sick and was not allowed to do anything for two days, and the devil tried to cause trouble within our team. Each of these attacks and attempts to distract us from our purpose of being there only served to strengthen us and unite the team. This was only true because of our partners, like you, back here in the USA praying for us.

"To God be the glory. Great things He hath done."

YFC, our partnering churches and others in Liberia, who now want to join in and be a part of reaching Liberia's young people for the Lord, have asked that we return again next year and make these youth rallies an annual series of events.

I really believe the Lord has birthed a movement in Liberia, one that will grow, one that will reach many thousands of young people for Him, one that will impact the nation of Liberia for the Lord. But this will only be true if we, His servants, remain faithful to Him and continue to partner through our prayers and support with our Christian brothers and sisters in Liberia. Together we can all be a part of something far greater than anything any of us can do on our own.

So I ask for your continued partnership with me and our Liberia co-workers through your prayers. We have a lot of work to do this year to plan for next year's youth rallies. Lord willing, we will go back in January 2011. The Lord has provided us with a number of good prospects for next year's team members and ministry.

Thanks for partnering with me and serving Him in Liberia.

Dan Snyder

The Liberian newspaper, the Daily Observer, ran an obituary for Marian Schindler on April 8th, and on the same day, ran an editorial that mentioned the Schindlers.

Bill Thompson wrote a summary of the beautiful service Saturday honoring Marian Schindler. Many Liberians and former ELWA folks were present. The Bucks, including Cindy and Dan, Karen and Steve Ackley and Sam Kayea from Texas, Steve Snyder from South Carolina (he had just flown in from Kenya), Tom and Phil Geysbeek, Slaters (including Boyd and Suzanne), Thompsons (including Nancy and Judy), Van Rekens and Betty Frame, Sue Befus, Sue Benson, Alan and Cheri Shea, and many others were in attendance. Gealey Johnson and Mayatu Peabody cooked delicious country chop for all of us.

Marian's Memorial Service at Lakeshore Baptist Church in Stevensville, MI on April 10, 2010 was a real celebration of her life. John had talked with her about the service and I believe it carried out her desires, There were tearful moments but in the context of the assurance of the joyful reunion she was experiencing.

There was a gathering at the funeral home Friday night where ELWA family, church friends and Marian's family mingled, browsed the memorabilia such as her art work, her picture as a bride, her hole-in-one golf plaque and many "Bob and Marian" pictures from trips they had taken.

The burial was held in the morning with just her family, the ELWA MKs and Aunts and Uncles of Bob and John's. The headstone is beautiful with the words, "the greatest privilege in the world is to serve Jesus Christ" - a statement often made by Dr. Bob.

The service was well-planned. Bob and John both shared and gave beautiful tributes and expressed their deep love and appreciation for their mom. Maavi Norman read his mom Christine's tribute and Dr. Christian Peabody read a beautiful note from Priscilla Payne, longtime ELWA hospital nurse and dear friend. I was asked to speak on behalf of SIM and read a letter from Georgie Hungerpiller Davis. Her late sister, Roberta was delivered by Dr. Bob and named after him and Georgie's middle name is Marian.

The ladies from Lakeshore arranged for a dinner following the service. It featured a variety of Liberian dishes and greatly enjoyed by the 32 ELWA and Liberian guests.

By Bill Thompson

Marian and Dr. Bob wrote two books, Mission Possible (A History of Modern Missions) and Following the Great Physician (A History of the Christian Medical and Dental Association).There is a lovely obituary on Tributes.com with additional information on her life, and a guest book to sign.

Two of the doctors who served with the Schindlers have sent their remembrances celebrating the life of Marian, Bud Hurst and John Cowan, as does Ruth Bliss, nurse anesthetist. Then Maureen McCarron, who arrived at ELWA a month before the Schindlers, adds her memories in the following:

Dear John and Bob,

We've been reading the messages sent to you since the passing of your Mother, and they have all echoed our thoughts of remembrance. Saturday as many friends from ELWA days gathered to share with you in her memorial you were in our prayers -- and we wish we could have been there too.

Just a few more thoughts for you from the Blisses. It was our joy to arrive in July 1966 just before your family was leaving for furlough. (That's what it was called then!) We were welcomed and soon I was shown the operating room at the hospital as I was the first anesthetist there. I was truly impressed with the thoughtful consideration in the plans for ELWA Hospital and every piece of equipment and personnel that God had brought to serve Him there. We knew your Mom had much to do with the architectural plans -- and your Dad was very proud of her!

Both of your parents were committed to bringing the best care we could offer to ALL of those who came to the hospital. We worked hard to keep up with your Dad as some days it seemed surgery would never end. It was about 6 PM when he was leaving the O.R. and said, "Have a nice dinner!" I started to cry -- I was tired, and there was no dinner started at my house. Guess where we had dinner -- at your house! He went to the office and called your Mom to tell her Blisses would be coming for dinner. It was easy to know they cared!

Gretchen Hurst mentioned living in your home and your Mom leaving everything -- including her sterling silver -- for them to use. One of our ELWA potlucks up at the gym, Marian came to me and said, "You brought your sterling spoon to a potluck?!!!" Well, I didn't even know the spoon was sterling, but it never was taken to a potluck again.

When our boys were little and went to the beach every afternoon that they could, I was concerned as toddlers they often had diarrhea after going to the beach. Marian consoled me saying that was just the way it was with you guys too! Drinking in the salt water will do that!!!

There are other anecdotes of our time at ELWA, but for sure, your parents will always be a special part of our memories. Time does ease the pain of loss, and I'm sure you will feel the loss of your Mother, but I pray God's peace and comfort will be your strength and joy as you trust in Him - day by day.

With loving sympathy,

Ruth (and Bart) Bliss

John and Bob--We have thought so much about you today as you honored your mother in her memorial service, attended by many, we are sure. We would love to have been there, as we, along with a host of others, loved your parents and were greatly blessed to call them our friends.

When Bud wrote to your dad in the early 70's, letting him know we were available for short-term service if needed, we got an enthusiastic response--"Yes, we have been praying for a replacement for me to return for furlough and to take my surgical boards". That began a special friendship with both your mom and dad.

Your mother graciously offered your home to us for the 15 months we were at ELWA. She generously left her lovely china and her sterling, in addition to their furniture, and encouraged us to use it freely, in spite of the fact that we had three children 4 and under! Through the years following, we enjoyed great fellowship as we met at the annual meetings of the American College of Surgeons. We laughed until our sides hurt, and yet in the serious times, your parents were great encouragers. Many have mentioned the teamwork evidenced by your parents, and the major part your mom played in the ministry at ELWA. We observed that firsthand. She was an amazing person who radiated the joy of the Lord. Her smile lit up the room as she entered. Her love for the Lord was evident to all who knew her.

We extend to your our love and sympathy, but look forward with you to a great reunion in heaven. Eternity alone will reveal the tremendous impact they and their ministries have had on many, many people.

Dr. Bud and Gretchen Hurst

Dear Betty (Thompson),

I would like to add my tributes to others. Thank you for all you do in sharing so much with us all.

• Marian was[is] one of the heroines of the faith!
• She was a woman of noble character.
• She was filled with graceful charm.
• She had a smile that could warm the planet
• She and Bob showed extreme generosity to all who crossed their paths.
• She had a kindness and love that preferred others and so built esteem into others.
• Although hugely gifted she remained humble in spirit.
• Bob and Marian welcomed us warmly to ELWA .They readily understood our English mindset [and tolerated our foibles] and happily exploited the cross-cultural differences. This led to times of riotous humour in the Doctor's office.
• There was such a deep love and understanding between Bob and Marian.
• They built faith into my life during the formative years of medical practice and I will always be grateful to the Lord for giving us such wonderful friends.

So Betty these are just a few thoughts.

May I say that the other person who really helped and influenced me as a young doctor was Pricilla Payne - another heroine of the faith.

So blessings to you all from across the pond.

In Jesus Name

John Cowan

Dear Bob and John,

You have both been in my thoughts and prayers these past weeks during your Mom's difficult illness and final release to her Lord. Like others, I also wanted to add a few personal comments. Our family arrived in Liberia in September 1962, one month before you and your parents joined the ELWA family. They were waiting for us - at the Academy and in the medical work. So with just a few days to unpack and meet staff members both of our families quickly got busy starting our new jobs. Pam was just a baby, and you both were little guys! Until the hospital was built I remember the temporary medical office your Dad set up, with your Mom's help, at the Thompson house where you were living, - missionary patients waiting to be seen just joined your family living quarters, and your Mom seemingly just took all the chaos in stride! Not easy I'm sure--- I was fortunate to be the pianist and join the guys, including your Dad and my Bob, when the ELWA quartet was formed, and we had many fun times traveling to various churches and concerts and sharing music together, and often your Mom joined us.

I've read memories of others, focusing on your Mom's contribution and great assets to your Dad and the ELWA Hospital. But I'd also like to note her helpfulness and service to ELWA Academy as she shared her gifts. We all appreciated her creative weekly art classes - KIDS enjoyed the fun projects and TEACHERS were grateful for someone to take that responsibility so we could have a brief break! Your Mom was also a special blessing when we desperately needed a sub from time to time - I think particularly of the way she stepped into the kindergarten class when the Beachams had to suddenly leave because of Boyce's cancer. So these are special memories I have of our time with your Mom at ELWA.

After we returned home in 1971 our connection with your folks was mainly through yearly letters at Christmas, hearing of their overseas travels as well as God's direction in both of your lives, with a few personal visits in TN and MI. I think our last face-to-face visit was at the ELWA reunion in Houghton in the early 1990s. When your Dad went to be with the Lord, your Mom and I shared frequent emails of encouragement as we moved into our new assignment as widows and found God's peace and grace in the hard and lonely times. She continued to encourage me as I began my new ministry, teaching and discipling young people in Asia with Word of Life.

Since hearing this latest news of your Mom, I've been visually counting the homes and families from one end of ELWA beach, starting with Aunt Clara and your home, up and around the school and other roads, over to the Liberian staff village, and down to the Frazee end of the beach, remembering how many are now in our Lord's presence - almost every home has one, and some have more than one, who have left us. I've just gone through the grief process with the Lowe family in Florida this winter. We can only imagine the joyful reunion and stories they are sharing together. We miss them all, but we know they are experiencing new life and restored bodies, and our hope continues to be that future reunion when there is no more separation. (I Thess. 4:17). May God continue to comfort you during this hard time - and know that others care and will be praying for you.

In His care,

Maureen McCarron

You can post reflections about Marian's life and how she has touched YOUR life, too in the "Comment" box below.

I was surprised and humbled to be asked to represent SIM at this occasion. Marian endeared herself to all who knew her. The Thompsons and Schindlers served together for fifteen years in Liberia and were able to visit each other many times after we both returned to the States. It was special having them come to our 50th W.A. in September of 2001 and having Bob sing his testimony (and ours), "The Longer I Serve Him the Sweeter He Grows".

One of my most vivid and happy memories was at the Executive Mansion when Bob and Marian were honored by President Tubman on the eve of his departure for medical treatment in England. After the ceremony we were invited to the seaside balcony where the President led a hymn sing which lasted for perhaps an hour. It turned out to be President Tubman's last public appearance.

When I remember Marian I think of Ruth 3:11..."And now my daughter, do not fear. I will do for you whatever you ask, for all my people in the city know that you are a woman of Excellence."

How better to describe Marian RUTH Schindler? I can hear Dr. Bob's big bass "AMEN".

She was an excellent wife. Dr. Bob was sometimes bigger than life but Marian knew who he was and knew who SHE was. She was neither awed nor insecure. She knew what was needed for their relationship to prosper and she gave herself to it.

She was an excellent planner. One of her accomplishments Dr. Bob was proudest about was her being the architect for the ELWA hospital. She incorporated a lot of new ideas that made the operation very practical and efficient.

Not so well known was her excellence as a writer. She did a lot of writing to describe the hospital ministry, promoting the raising of funds to meet the weekly payroll, to provide equipment and supplies - a great responsibility and Marian carried a big share of it.

Marian has been an excellent friend. She related to people with openness and dignity. It didn't matter what station, socially or economically, she welcome you as a friend. Another area which made us admire Marian was her ability to manage a doctor's household on a missionary allowance. It wasn't easy but she did it!

One more area and I know there are many more: Marian was a mother of excellence. For a half-century her two loving sons have looked to Marian - and no greater testimony can be given than the way Bob and John have loved and served their mother for these last trying months.

We salute you, Marian and rejoice that you and Dr. Bob are together again. This time FOREVER and the Lord has received her with the words..."Well done, Woman of Excellence."

From Nancy Thompson Molenhouse:

Memories of Aunt Marian

My memories of Aunt Marian go back to the 1960's in Liberia when the Schindlers arrived to start ELWA hospital. I remember how Aunt Marian used her gifts of hospitality and artistry to make ELWA hospital a "home" to the many who came in and out the doors of the hospital. Dr. Bob delivered my brother Brian, and we have happy memories of visiting Mom and baby Brian at the "new" ELWA hospital when he was born.

For the past three years, it has been my privilege to serve on the REAP board with Aunt Marian as chairlady. Her sweet, quiet, dedicated leadership was evidenced in our board meetings and throughout the years as she demonstrated the qualities of Godly leadership and her servant heart. We and the REAP board truly miss her!

Most recently, this past November, Mom, Dad, Christine Norman and I drove to see Aunt Marian as she was hospitalized due to her illness. We enjoyed a wonderful visit together, reminiscing and praising the Lord for His faithfulness through the years. Not once did I hear any sort of complaint from her regarding her health challenges. I consider it such a joy to have known Aunt Marian, and can hardly wait see her one day in Heaven, along with all of our other ELWA "aunts and uncles".

Bob and John, may God comfort you, bless you and keep you, as you mourn the loss of your mom, and know that your ELWA family will always be there for you. We love you,

Nancy Thompson Molenhouse

From dear friend and long-time ELWA nurse, Priscilla Payne:

A Tribute to Marian, my Sister, my Friend and Supporter in every way.

A call came from Judy Slater tonight at 7:45 Eastern concerning your Homegoing. It was shocking to me, not that I did not know that you were very sick. Almost 2 weeks ago when I called, your voice sounded stronger than previous times and I was very encouraged. You even wanted for me to visit you before I left for Liberia in May. I began to think seriously how I could make that happen.

Tonight, April 8th I received a call that you died on April 6th. This is one of my biggest disappointments in my lifetime, that I did not receive, on time, an email sent me from Betty Thompson. I am disappointed and sad that I am unable to attend your funeral, yet I rejoice that you are at rest and peace with the Master.

I shall forever cherish memories of my annual visit with the Schindlers, memories of things we did together and memories of your selfless giving and love. When I needed a loan to establish the Roland J. Payne Orphanage in Liberia, without hesitation you and Dr. Bob promptly gave me a $10,000 loan. After Dr. Bob passed I had not quite paid half of the loan. Then you stopped me from paying anymore.

Today, we your loved ones, mourn your loss because we are human, yet our comfort lies in our Lord's Easter Victory. He points us to His promise... "because I live, you also will live." He fills us with the hope of a joyful reunion with you and other loved ones who have gone ahead to heaven. I am confident that your soul IS resting in peace....

Priscilla Yandia Payne

From David Troko comes the following:

Dear Bob and John,

It is with great sorrow that we write to express our condolences to you and all ELWA family. We rejoice that both your parents are NOW in the arms of Jesus, but as human being, we are deeply sadden and mourn their departure from this side of heaven (so soon).

No amount of comforting words (never mind yah) can ease the pain of their absence from your and our lives no matter how prepared we were for the promotion to heaven.

Since we heard of your Mum's illness, we have been praying... praying that she would get well and back on her feet again. Following the progress of her illness, we were scared stiff and dumb-founded to speak, but kept seeking God's will to be done and wishing His Will would be to prolong her life, but He knows best and decided to call her home.

It would be difficult to pay a fitting tribute to your Mum exclusively without reference to your Dad as they were like 2 peas in a pod. You see one and then the other. From the time I have known them (1963), your dad would never speak without making mention of your Mum. He would always acknowledge her, saying, "We are a team".

To begin with, I have many fondest memories of them as they both contributed much to my life and profession. They were always reaching out to the underdog and the vulnerable members of our society as I remember their ministry in Liberia. They reached out to Sibio Nagba, Momo Jah, John Bonnah, Christine, the abandoned child, etc. As the Old adage goes, "behind every successful man, there is a woman". They were great encouragers, people builder and a real great team.

On personal note, I was greatly helped and validated by your parents. When I was in 10th grade, my classmate and I consulted Dr. Schindler (without appointment) on what it takes to become a doctor. His answer: hard work! As a single handed doctor, he brought Elwa Hospital into being in 1965 (just 2 years on the field). This hospital was designed by your Mum. Their love for people and their charisma were like human magnet, drawing people from all walks of life to work together. Elwa Hospital gains a prominence place in the minds and hearts of people internationally. They were accoladed to the glory of the Lord and their legacy is still alive and expanding.

Okay, let me separate them a bit. Guys, your mum was very beautiful spiritually and physically. Your mum was always smiling and made conversation possible. I could not recall any time she showed her anger or displeasure. I would say that she fitted the description of a noble woman in I Peter 3:3 - 6. Your Mum ..." had a meek and quiet spirit, which in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands. Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord:..." I found your Mum also in Proverbs 31: 10 - 31.

There were many beautiful women at ELWA in those wonderful days but dare not say who they were. The dormitory men were ranking them. Of these, two were too close to call and it is now safe to name them. Your Mum came up as the First. The runner up was the late Aunt Sammy Ries. May their souls rest in perfect peace.

As I said earlier, your parents were great, but yet, you always find them with ordinary people like me. In my confused days, trying to find my own way in life, your parents heard that I was leaving Elwa after 8 years as a staff. Your Dad drove to the men's dorm and encouraged me to stay and work at Elwa Hospital. He took much interest in me that I was just a little more than a nurses' aid. I went on to become a doctor and worked with him; first it was my wife, Velma, being the first female Liberian doctor. Here in UK, your parents stopped to see us and blessed us in the late 90's (between 96 and 99) when you dad came was President of CMF.

As for your Dad, he was not only a surgeon, but a diplomat, a distinguished "Liberian citizen". a preacher, a singer, a sport personality along with Uncle Bill Thompson, Uncle Al Snyder, the Late Dr. Bob McCarron (principal of RVS and Elwa Academy), the Late Don Miller, Boyce Beacham, and the rest. He was a people person and would have easily made it to the Executive Mansion as president of Liberia because everyone would have voted for him had he wanted to. He remembered people by name and had a good sense of humor.

I am indebted to both. We hope to carry on their legacy. May we console you with words of the Apostle Paul in I Thes. 4:14 - 18; and Rev. 21:4 "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain. For the former things are passed away.

Lovingly yours,

David & Velma Troko

Adding to what Ruth Van Reken wrote, is William Bowee Jaywheh:

To add to what my mother (Ruth VanReken) has written about our dear friend--Marian Schindler--, on one of the several occasions that I had the chance to talk with her and Uncle Bob in Wheaton, Illinois, I asked both why were they so loved by everyone around the ELWA Community and the rest of Liberia. Without taking a minute or two to think on a claver answer, they responded, " Well Chief," as uncle Bob loved to refer to me, " not every patient who came to the hospital needed medicine to take care of the his problem, no matter how sick they looked. All we had to do for some people was to take them to Bob's office, chat with them a little, offer a cup of coffee or can of soda, listen to their problems--some stories they told had nothing to do with physical sickness-- and at the end of the visit, they left feeling good about themselves, and we had not given a single pill. So we bluffed them with good conversation, and they left thinking Bob was the best doctor in the world.' As I practice nursing in the states, I always try to remember that not all who come to the hospital need injections and pills; just listening ears and a great smile could send someone away feeling well.

Another thing: it did not matter how small or big you are, well known or not so famous, rich or poor, both Uncle Bob and Aunt Marian would sit and talk with you. By the way, Uncle Bob was a lover and (well knowledgeable) of Liberian politics. He and I never ended a day's conversation without talking a little politics. Indeed they both were extraordinary people.

Bob and John, May the God your parents served so faithfully comfort you during this VERY difficult chapter in lives of you two.

Your friend and brother,

William Bowee Jaywheh

From Georgie Hungerpillar Davis:

I want to send my condolences to both John and Bob for the passing of Aunt Marian. It is difficult when both of your parents are out of reach, but I pray they will be comforted in knowing that there is indeed joy going on in heaven right now. The first part of the book, Ninety Minutes In Heaven, gave me comfort after my own parents passed away. In reality Uncle Bob and Aunt Marian are not dead, they are just out of reach for those on earth.

I was told repeatedly as a child that Dr. Bob (Robert) had delivered me, and that my sister, Robertta Marian Hungerpiller, was named after them. Although I don't recall too many memories as the rest, I do know that they were held in high esteem by my parents.

I have two memories: the whole Schindler family came and had supper with us at Carver when they came to Liberia for a visit, probably in 1977. My memory was that I was 12 or 13 and had just started wearing high heels. My mother always made us hostesses when she often put on elaborate meals for guests. Bertie and I were going back and forth to the kitchen bringing and serving food, and I remember that it was very important to me that I wore my heels, as we knew there were 2 young fellows coming to dinner, and we were determined to "bluff" that night. While going back and forth to the table, the heels could not keep up with me, and I slipped and stumbled right as I was going to serve something at the table. At 12 years old, that was a very humiliating experience, and I suppose that is why it has always stuck in my mind. I had failed to do the single most important thing of the evening, impress them with my high heels.

In God's timing, Dr. Bob was in Liberia during the week we buried Bertie. He sang at the funeral; I think the song was How Great Thou Art. That was very meaningful for us because of the name sake and the apparent fondness of the Schindlers.

I have been touched by the stories that have been coming in. "They loved people" is the main theme that keeps coming up, and I believe this is the most effective quality to have in ministry. So I rejoice over the life that both Uncle Bob and Aunt Marian lived.

To God be the glory!

Georgie Davis

Dear John and Bob Schindler:

Since others are sharing some of their thoughts about Aunt Marian, I really wanted to add mine. I am en route back from Kenya. I get home late tonight. But, I am planning to be at Aunt Marian's funeral this weekend in Michigan. I will be flying up there tomorrow.

Outside of my own parents, no adults were as special, meant as much to me or more positively impacted me during my growing up years than Aunt Marian and Dr. Bob. Both as a child and as an adult, they were truly heroes to me. And, in many, many ways, over and over again, they let me know they loved me. Short of my own parents, I loved them more than any of the adults I ever knew as a kid. (And, that is saying a lot because there are others from our ELWA family that I loved and love dearly.)

The Schindler's house was my second home. I was always welcomed there and, even as an adult, have always felt like another son. A couple of times as a pre-schooler when I would get upset about something at home, I would say that I was going to run away from home and live with Aunt Marian. One time, I apparently packed some clothes and started to leave (I couldn't have been more than four years of age) when my mom told me it was okay but I should remember that Aunt Marian did not make no bake oatmeal cookies like my mom did. Anyway, I apparently sat out in the back yard for a long time, pondering my future, and ultimately decided to stay home. Still, I spent many, many nights at the Schindlers and their house was my second home.

I could write for hours describing my fond and precious memories of both Dr. Bob and Aunt Marian. For now, though, I'll mention one key reason why Aunt Marian meant so much to me and how she profoundly impacted my life. Basically, she always genuinely loved me, treated me with genuine kindness and accepted me as I was. She even made me feel special, such as the times Dr. Bob had stayed up all night doing emergency surgery and then needed some quiet so he could get some rest, which resulted in all the noisy kids hanging out at their place being sent away. But, Aunt Marian would let me stay.

More importantly, there were times, seasons, when my relationships with other adults, particularly some teachers, were very difficult. I loved growing up at ELWA and treasure the experience. But, that doesn't mean it was always perfect. Anyway, the ways adults "see" and treat children often serve to define a child in the mind of that child. Although my parents were awesome, there were times I was beaten down by some of these adults in ways that left me precariously close to believing that I was the bad, unworthy kid that some seemed to think I was. But Aunt Marian stood in the gap. Of course, I had great parents who faithfully and patiently believed in me. But, having someone, in addition to my own mom, who I so loved and admired, believe in me and love me so consistently truly kept me from buying in to the message about me I was receiving from others. She kept me balanced and hopeful. She kept me from giving in and giving up. And, I am deeply indebted to her.

For the past 12 or 13 years (maybe it's more than that), I have been able to visit the Schindlers up in Michigan during all but two summers. Before he passed on to glory, I loved my talks with Dr. Bob, including wonderful discussions of medical-legal issues. I represent physicians in my work and Dr. Bob always ended these conversations with a warm pat on my back and his affirming words, "Steve, you're doing God's work!" I loved being loved by him and Aunt Marian. And, I now treasure having been able to let them know how much they meant to me.

I feel particularly blessed because I was able to be up there just a few weeks ago to visit with Aunt Marian and tell her once again what she has meant to me, how profoundly and wonderfully she has impacted my life and how much I love her. As always, she smiled and responded with love and grace. Tommy Geysbeck was with me one of those two evenings and he, too, with his remarkable gentleness, also told her how much he loved her. He was blessed by her life just as I was.

Let me not leave things here without also commenting on how much John and Bob have meant and still mean to me. I cannot begin to count the many hours I spent with those guys, playing baseball with Johnny, reading encyclopedias with Bobby, playing Batman and Robin with John (he always got to be Batman because they had the TV set on which we would watch that program -- but I at least got to be Robin), building cities and forts in the sand by the lagoon with Bobby, and on and on. And, as adults, I have continued to enjoy their rich friendship, particularly as I have had the privilege of serving for many years on the board of John Schindler Ministries. (By the way, a special thanks to Lee Sonius for re-connecting John and me after we had lost contact for too many years.) Like their parents, John and Bob have always loved people, have generously shared all they had (including their parents) with complete unselfishness, and have been true friends to me. They have truly impacted me for good.

There is this song in the popular Broadway musical, Wicked (which my family loves), that is absolutely powerful. It is called "For Good." I played and talked about it during my retreat last week with students from Rosslyn Academy in Kenya. Anyway, the sum of it boils down to these words -- which I can definitely say about Aunt Marian: "Because I knew you -- I have been changed for good."

Fortunately, it doesn't stop there. They say: "You can't take it with you." That is true for most things. But, you can when it comes to fellow believers. I know she is in a place of peace, including the complete lack of fear or worry, a place where she is well, a place where the music is beyond description and the joy unimagined by any of us.

The struggles we have in life, including our losses and grief, remind me that we live in a fallen world, a world that falls short of our expectations, hopes and dreams because, ultimately, our sin leaves us so incomplete and reminds us that this world is not our home. Yet, the joy we sense when members of our ELWA family celebrate a life like Aunt Marian's or experience the sense of belonging and community we feel when we get together are but a taste of that future and ultimate and real "home."

I miss Aunt Marian. Hers is a life that made a difference in the lives of many, including particularly me.

I look forward to seeing others of you this weekend as we mourn her passing, celebrate her life and look forward to joining her one day when we finally are home.

Steve

From her son, John Schindler, we got the following word:

Mom went to be with the Lord at 2:30 PM this afternoon (Tuesday, April 6, 2010). There is much celebration in heaven! I greatly appreciate all your love, support and prayers, especially from the ELWA family! The funeral will be Saturday at 11:00 AM at Lakeshore Baptist Church in Stevensville, MI. Visitation will be Friday from 5:00 to 7:00 PM at Starks & Menchinger Funeral Chapel in St. Joseph, MI.

Marian Ruth Schindler

Born May 31, 1929 went to be with the Lord on April 6, 2010 in her home after a long illness.

A loving wife, mother and friend, she had a deep love for the Lord and was a consistent Christ-like example to all she met. Her greatest joy in this life was her family. She and her husband, Dr. Robert Schindler, enjoyed an unusually close and wonderful marriage. The Schindler's were a definite team. She most enjoyed assisting her husband in their various ministries and life together. Her two sons Bob, Jr. and John were also the source of much of her love, encouragement and affection.

Marian was a graduate of Egan High School in Egan, SD and Taylor University in Upland, IN (B.A. in Christian Education). She also completed one year at the New York University Graduate School pursuing a master's degree in education.

From 1962 to 1975 the Schindler's served the Lord as missionaries with the then Sudan Interior Mission in Liberia, West Africa. Along with her husband, they founded the ELWA Hospital in Monrovia, Liberia. Mrs. Schindler worked as the secretary for her physician husband and also was the architect of the hospital. Former Liberian President William V.S. Tubman decorated both Dr. and Mrs. Schindler for their missionary service at the hospital. Marian was decorated Knight Official of the Humane Order of African Redemption.

Along with her husband, Mrs. Schindler authored two books, Mission Possible (A History of Modern Missions) and Following the Great Physician (A History of the Christian Medical and Dental Association). She was a gifted artist who enjoyed occasionally painting. Marian also enjoyed golfing with her husband or her son John.

Locally, she was active in her local church, Lakeshore Baptist Church, and also in the Christian Women's Clubs and Bible Study Fellowship. Mrs. Schindler also served for several years as a founding board member of the local Council for the Christian Arts.

Memorials can be made to either John Schindler Ministries, SWMC Foundation (ELWA Hospital Operating Room Project), or REAP.

Ruth Van Reken and her husband Dr. Dave Van Reken served with Dr. and Mrs. Schindler. Ruth wrote the following memories, addressing the family.

Just wanted to take this time with the rest of you to pay tribute to an amazing woman God used mightily in our lives, along with her terrific husband, Dr. Bob.

In 1970 we went as short-termers to ELWA when my husband Dave, a senior med student, had an elective time to do overseas. We had tried to go to Nigeria because I was born there and my parents were still there, but we couldn't get visas at that time, so Dr. Bob graciously agreed to sponsor us in Liberia instead. Surely that invitation and time changed our lives as we spent so much time with both of them and saw true partnership in and for the Kingdom. Dr. Bob even delivered our first daughter during that time and Marian was among the first to hold her.

A couple of highlight memories...

When we asked Dr. Bob how he could go on day after day being the only doctor there, countless nights going up to the hospital to deliver another baby, or whatever, he said "I came here for anyone for whom Christ died - rich or poor. When I feel tired, I ask myself, 'Did Christ die for this person?' and when the answer is always "yes," it give me strength to go on." Marian mirrored that in the sense that I never, ever heard her complain of loneliness or isolation from all the hours he spent in the hospital..usually, she was there with him. And how proudly Dr. Bob showed us around the hospital when we first got there. pointing out all of Marian's wonderful ideas in the design and layout of the hospital as well as telling us every miracle story for how provided this piece of equipment or that.

As we watched their evident joy in being servants of the King (Bob used to always say the most fun was watching to see how God was going to pay this month's bills, and Marian would love with him in that same expectation), how could anyone resist following such a life and purpose? There were many others of you who shaped our lives at that same time in 1970 to say nothing of all our later years at ELWA...the Ackleys, Thompsons, Balzer, Sheas, Naffs, Slaters, Dillons, Bowee Jaywheh, James Dayugar, Sam and Emma Miller,. to name only a few and now I"ve missed so many others but you are equally included..who showed us what it was to love and serve others in the name of Jesus...what a gift in our lives.

But today, the loss is real on this human side to know that Marian and her sweet, precious smile and sense of humor despite her own very real sorrow in missing of Bob in these recent years, is gone. Yet, with Joy de la Haye and the rest of you, it's good to think of the ELWA reunions taking place right now in heaven. May we all continue well here on the rest of our journeys too knowing the great cloud of witnesses is there cheering us on somehow with Jesus...

Yes, ELWA and our lives there have added wealth untold to our years here on earth. And Marian was for us, personally, one of the GREAT additions...

Bob, Jr. and John, you have our love and sympathy and prayers at this time. Love to all, Ruth

We will continue to post tributes to Marian.

Dan and Annette are on their way home from an exhausting and exhilarating ministry trip to Liberia. Annette posted a quick message:

Hi world out there. I am sitting in Accra on my way back from Liberia where I grew up. It has been an amazing trip. Will be putting pictures on my blog soon and story telling. Totally unbelivable. We just had lunch with Joshua Milton Blahyia who was known as General Butt Naked in the Liberian civil war. He had a Damascus salvation story will tell in on my blog! Love you all thanks for praying for us.

Dan also sent a quick message:

In Accra right now visiting with Lee and Michelle - had lunch with the former General Butt Naked and what an amazing story of the love of God reaching down and saving the most wicked of the wicked and what a ministry he now has in Liberia. Praise the Lord!

For those of you who didn't follow the Liberian Civil War, read what Wikipedia says about General Butt Naked. Please be warned that it is graphic and disturbing:

We will be posting some of Dan and Annette's stories in the future.